Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Social Media Etiquette for Men: Respect, Don’t Harass



How to Talk to Women on Social Media Without Being a Creep πŸ§‘πŸ’»πŸ’¬

Social media is a free-for-all, but that doesn’t give anyone a free pass to be disrespectful. Almost every woman online has dealt with random DMs, thirsty comments, or unwanted sexual messages. Let’s set some simple, modern rules for interacting respectfully.


1. Keep It Classy—No Sexual Comments 🚫

Even if her pictures are flirty or sexy, don’t comment on how turned on you are. It’s not flattering—it’s unmanly, awkward, and unwelcome.

 Instead:

  • Compliment her choices, creativity, or achievements.

  • Show genuine interest in what she shares, not just how she looks.

πŸ’‘ Pro tip: “You look amazing” is boring; “Your travel photos are inspiring!” stands out.


2. Save the Sarcasm for People Who Know You 😏

Snarky or sarcastic comments often fall flat online. Most people can’t read your tone through text, and sarcasm can easily come off as rude or passive-aggressive. Keep it witty, clever, and respectful.


3. Don’t Assume She’s Ignorant 🀦‍♂️

Nothing annoys women more than unsolicited corrections or “actually” moments. Don’t DM or comment to prove you know better—it’s condescending.


4. Respect Her Space πŸ›‘

Scrolling through her feed? Fine. Commenting on every post? Big no-no. Liking or replying to every picture sends the message: “I’ve studied every inch of your life”. That’s creepy, not charming.

πŸ’‘ Rule of thumb: Be selective and meaningful with your interactions. Less is more.


5. Don’t Join Private Conversations πŸ‘‚

Seeing her chat with friends online isn’t an invitation to jump in. Think of it like overhearing a conversation in a cafΓ©—you don’t barge in with your opinion. Respect boundaries.


6. Treat Her Like a Human, Not a Trophy 🌟

Whether she’s an influencer, your crush, or someone you met online: she’s a person, not an object.

How to stand out:

  • Be respectful.

  • Build trust and comfort.

  • Show her she can talk to you without feeling harassed.


7. Build Real Connections, Not Obsessions πŸ’¬

Conversations should grow naturally. Be clever, insightful, and genuine—then let her respond. Pushing, spamming, or trying to dominate her feed is a surefire way to repel, not attract.

Remember: Respect, patience, and authenticity go further than any pick-up line ever will.

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